Q: My son is 26 years old, extremely handsome, has a great paying job (makes about $56k/yr), but the problem is, is that he doesn't want to move out of our house. He has never lived on his own. He is afraid of commitment so he doesn't stay in relationships long enough to end up living with his previous girlfriends. His siblings have even offered him to live with them but he refuses because of his pride. He doesn't have that many friends to rely on (all his friends are married). He makes more than enough to live independently. My husband isn't much of a support, so he doesn't mind our son living at home. What do I do? I have tried to not cook his meals, clean his room, and do his laundry. Anybody have any experience like me? I should have included that I did charge him rent and he even payed for it. But I still want him out of the house! Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
A: Ok...first of all I wouldn't have dated a man who still lives at home no matter what money he had..quality women probably pass him up when they discover this...because they think he has a controling mother...or he is lazy.......however untrue that is... tell him that you want grandkids someday and that he will never find a decent wife if he doesn't move out. tell him "its time"..and that you want some privacy with his father...after all haven't you earned it? Tel him he is welcome to visit, but he needs his own place to sleep, so you and your hubby can do the romantic stuff again...you have an identity as a wife and as a woman..not just as a mother!
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